Thursday, December 29, 2011

¡Feliz Navidad!

I'm a few days late, but Merry Christmas everyone! Can you believe that there are only 2 1/2 days left of 2011?! Then it's the big "2012." :D Most of the past week has been Christmas break. Last Thursday I got my report card for the first trimester of school. I failed all my classes except for P.E., English, and "Proyecto Integrado" which I'm not even sure what class that's for. Lengua maybe? I'm not too bummed -- I know I'll do better next trimester. Poco a poco. Check it out.


If you get 5+ it's passing; 0-4 is failing . . . I think. But THERE IS 0, and as you can see, I have no 0's. I did get 10 in English: perfecto!

I know I keep saying this, but I WILL write a blog post about Spanish school soon.

As it turns out, there was school last Friday but no one in Bachillerato goes. Score. Good thing, because on Thursday night I went to a Christmas party for the Rotary Club of Estepona. Aren't we all pretty?


Saturday was Christmas Eve, which is celebrated in basically the same as Christmas day is here: food and drinks, family, gifts, and.... yeah, that's about it! Pretty good, right? On Christmas Eve I went to my Aunt Lola's house with Paola, Abuelo, my "cousin" Rafa (who is staying with us for Christmas break), another family, and a family friend. I think there were nine of us total. It was nice to have lots of family around, and the food was pretty good too. Being Spain though, we started dinner around 9 pm, and left the house aound... 1 am? or was it 2? I'm not sure, but it was late enough for me not to remember.

On Christmas day I went to Malaga with my Rotary counselor, Juan, and had Christmas with his family. There were so many people there, but I loved it! Lately it hasn't felt like Christmastime at all, but being with so much family made it seem a bit more real. I especially loved Juan's little niece and nephew. We played some Mario together and built race tracks and it felt so normal. The food on Christmas day was delicious, and there was so much! I'd tell myself: Okay, that was so good, but I can't do more. Then they'd tell me: oh, there's two more courses! By the end of the day, I didn't think I would ever be able to eat again.

Juan's family taught me how to cut jamon (ham)!


Juan's family at the table
Since Christmas I've mainly been hanging out with my friends, Rafa and his friends, running, and relaxing. Because Spain has the The Day of the Kings on January 6th, school doesn't start again until January 9th!! Talk about a nice break. I'll write more on The Day of the Kings (as well as some other holidays here) when it comes around, but until later, I wish you all a Happy New Year!

Lots of love,
Josie

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Spain has turned me into a Tweeter!

Hey, it's me again. I'm still sick :(

Perhaps going to school on Monday is what killed me, because that night my throat began to hurt. Then when I woke up yesterday my voice was all but gone, my throat was inflamed,  and my head was still congested/aching from last weekend. There was no way I was going to go to school. Today I feel a little better, but not good enough to go to school. If I was in the US I may have gone to school today, but here, I'm not going to go to school to sit through classes I can hardly participate in if I feel like crud. I don't think I'm missing much, considering many of my classmates are skipping anyway since we're done with finals and Christmas break starts Saturday. Or is it Friday? I'm not really sure. I don't think anyone actually goes to school on Friday, but I don't know if we officially have class. Oh, Spain.

I don't actually have much else to tell you as far as an update on life here, so today I'll share some differences that I've noticed between living in Spain and in the US.


1. In Spain, almost everyone smokes.

Most of the adults smoke. Even friends of mine from school smoke -- it's not like they're bad kids, it's just a culture difference. I think that smoking is looked down on much more in the US. Although I am used to the smoking here, it bothers me that so many people, especially the youth, do it.

2. In Spain, nobody uses Facebook.

Yes, you read that correctly. Everyone at my school uses a social network called Tuenti (pronounced like "twenty"), as well as Twitter. Tuenti is more or less "Spain's Facebook." It has the same basic functions, but it works way worse. Tuenti has so many malfunctions, that I wouldn't even bother with the thing it it weren't for the fact that everyone here uses it. Many people also Tweet here, which is quite a change from my dead Twitter feed I once had in the US. As far as Facebook goes, many people have it but never use it. I have probably 3 or 4 friends here who check their Facebook. This kind of stinks because you guys can't really creep on my Spanish friends.


A snapshot of Tuenti's Newsfeed (Not mine - GoogleImages, anyone?)


3. In Spain, everybody is always making sure you don't get sick.

I can't tell you how many different things I've been told to do/not do in order to prevent colds/sickness. For example: Wear shoes in the house; Wear a scarf, EAT YOUR MANDARINES! It isn't just parents - friends too, and even some teachers. At first I was a little bit annoyed by this, but really it isn't a bad thing - people are just looking out for each other. Except, now I am sick even though I did all those things :( From my friends' and my experiences, I think that colds in Europe are much stronger than they are in the US. Perhaps this is why everyone is trying to prevent them so much. Another thing I've noticed, however, is that people don't wash their hands in the bathroom here. I don't get this, especially since they're so particular about preventing sickness.

4. Everyone curses in Spain.

That's not really an exaggeration - little kids, my classmates, my family - everyone is constantly cursing! The thing is, cursing isn't as bad here as it is in the US. Swear words are more like "strong words" rather than "bad words" here. Also, many things aren't censored on TV here as they are in the US such as curse words and nudity. I'd do without the nudity though if it were up to me. The cursing isn't a big deal to me because it's not bad here.

5. People in Spain like Obama.

Many people here, as well as an English couple I was able to talk with in October, really like President Obama. In the US though, it seems that no matter who is in office Americans are generally displeased with the president. Speaking of politics though, I don't think that many Americans realize how much the world is watching the US - our government, news, economy, and media, among other things.  To give you an idea of what I mean: I see news about the US everyday; Nearly all of the media here (music, movies, shows, etc.) is American; The US is constantly brought up in class, especially during Economy. The world is watching, America. It's something to keep in mind.

6. Most people in Spain live in Apartments

I actually live in a house at the moment, but most people here live in apartments. There are small ones, big ones; it all depends on the needs of whoever lives there. There are apartments in Newton, but most people live in houses.

7. The City Layouts

Okay, so I think that it's safe to say that most cities in the US follow a basic layout: You have the center of the city which is where you'll find most of the shops/restaurants/offices. As you move further from the center, there are less businesses and more residential areas, until you get into the suburbs. (If you're in Iowa and you move farther out than the residential areas you hit a ton of corn.) In Spain however, and much of Europe, this is not the case at all. Here, you have the center of the city -- common sights: plazas, churches, restaurants, shops -- but as you move out from the center, this continues. The "city" isn't in just one place. People live in the center of the city as well as around it. So it's a lot more mixed basically - people are living everywhere, and there are businesses everywhere.

8. Transportation

In Spain there is a lot more public transportation, so it's common to take the bus to whatever city you need to. Also, because of what I explained in #7, it's normal just to walk everywhere you need to go in a city. On the chance that you do ride in a car, it is usually filled to its max. It kind of reminds me of Shelby's car last year, but that's the norm here. All in all, transportation seems to be much more efficient here.

9. My classmates in Spain dress very casual - at school.

When at school, my classmates dress much more casual than we do in the US. Girls wear little/no makeup, and everyone is generally dressed way down. This is kind of a relief to me, because sometimes I just don't have any energy to put together a coordinating outfit, do my hair, all that good stuff. However, when they go out at night or on the weekends, they dress way up. The girls have on their make-up, and usually dresses or skirts or just nice clothes. So basically we have the two extremes here between casual school and dressy weekends. With the wardrobe that I brought from the US, I think that I generally dress between these two extremes. In the US, we definitely put more effort into our school appearance, but only dress up a little more, if any at all, to go out. I'm still not sure which system I like more.

10. Meals

In Spain, we start the day by having a light breakfast like a bowl of cereal. At 10:30 am, my school has a 20 minute reccess where most kids have a sandwich and a juice box (I'm not kidding about the juice boxes - everyone is walking around with them. It's awesome). Then at 1:50 pm there is another break where some people eat more, but I usually don't. After I get home from school, my family has a big lunch around 3:30 or 4:00 pm. This is the biggest meal of the day. Around 7:00 pm, or whenever one feels like it really, is snack time ("merienda"). This usually consists of something like Nutella toast and coffee for me. At 9:00 pm (sometimes later) we have a light dinner like a ham sandwich or maybe some lunch leftovers if there are any.

Well there are probably more differences that I meant to explain, but I can't think of them at the moment. If I think of more later, I'll try to write them down and blog 'em later. That's all I've got for now. Thanks to everyone who has sent me Christmas cards this past week - you have no idea how much a simple card has been able to make my day. Love you guys!

Only four days til Christmas!
Josie

Sunday, December 18, 2011

Hello from my bed surrounded by Kleenex.

Ugh. Yes, I am sick. I don't know if it's just me, or the general bad luck of exchange students with getting sick; either way my head feels like it's about to explode and I can't breathe through my nose. It started last night and when I got up this morning I thought I was about to fall over. Just my luck to feel icky on a perfectly good Saturday. I was going to go see the Christmas play at Evelyn's church tonight too! Urg.

When I left you last, Barcelona and Madrid were about to go head-to-head in the ultimate game of futbol. Apparently, almost everyone thought that Madrid was going to take it all, but it was Barcelona who came out strong in the end, 3-1. My family was so happy, being Barcelona fans. I have officially decided that I am going to support Barcelona for futbol for two main reasons, aside from the fact that they won the match:

1. My host family is for Barcelona, so I'd rather not be rivals with the people who feed me.

2. (Molly's reasoning) Madrid has the most ridiculous uniforms that are almost completely white, and inevitably, have grass stains all over them. For this reason, I simply cannot support Madrid - a smart team would have colored uniforms, like Barcelona, to help with stain control.

Also when I left you last, I was about to head out to a Christmas party at Evelyn's church! Well it turned out to be pretty good. We played games including "Upset the Fruit Basket" (Spanish style), ate a ton of delicious food, and had a gift exchange. At first I got a bunch of Kinder chocolate, but I later traded it for a Spanish Bible! I accidentally forgot it in a friend's (Lydia's) car, but once I get it back I am going to check it out for sure! I can't wait. After the party we watched the futbol game and later went to Plaza de Libertad. I felt so at home that night. It was the kind of night I would have in the US. I loved it, but at the same time it made me miss home so much.

The past week at school was fine. It was basically "finals week" so everyone was either studying or stressing out about studying. I took almost all of the exams but I think I failed all of them. I don't study for them because I usually just study for my Spanish class. Speaking of, my teacher loved me and Matthew's poster. Whooo. Also, I got a 10 (perfect) on my latest English exam. Other than that and PE, my grades are going stink.

Also this week, I met a group of friends from Matthew's class who I really like. I could definitely see them becoming some good friends. Making friends is turning out to be more difficult than I imagined, but it'll come. I know it will. Right now I just miss having those close friends from home who I can always go to about anything and who I can talk for hours with about nothing. Sure I have friends here, but not close ones -- yet. It'll come.

I have school all next week -- I'm not really sure why. All the finals are done, and Christmas Eve is Saturday. I can already see half my class not showing up next week, which is completely understandable. But ohmygoodness - Christmas is in a week!! It doesn't feel like Christmastime :( I'm still excited for Christmas here, but I really do miss home. All last week was good with homesickness - they wasn't any, I was feeling good, and I felt like I was beginning to make a home in Spain. Then last night it began to hit me hard that I don't have my family from Iowa here and how much I really do miss them, especially now at Christmastime. Everything is so strange and different than what I'm used to - it's not bad, it's just unfamiliar. Sometimes I miss the familiar, but I know I am going to gain so many experiences in the times to come.

Until later,
Josie

Saturday, December 10, 2011

Viva la Vida

Dear Devoted Readers,

I have an hour to kill before heading out for a Christmas Party, so I'll give you a little update on life in Spain.

Tonight is the Barcelona vs. Madrid futbol game, which is kind of a huge deal. Futbol is life in Spain, and nearly everyone has a say about it. Personally, I don't know who to root for. I don't live in or close to either city, and even though I really enjoy futbol, it's not very important who wins to me (sorry to all the Spaniards out there reading this who told me to root for their team!).



Who is going to win?!
The situation kind of reminds me of the ever going Cylones vs. Hawkeyes battle in Iowa. Especially in Newton, we live right between the teams, and it's pretty much a toss-up on who to cheer for (except that we know that the Hawkeyes are most likely going to win. Sorry Cyclones fans, it's just true). I think Madrid has a slight lead in favoritism, but Barcelona has the money, and pretty good skills. I'll let you guys know the results of the game in my next post, if you haven't heard already.

So I only had to go to school on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday last week because of national holidays, so that was definitely a plus. On Wednesday I went to the library with a few friends from class and attempted to help them study for English. It ended up being a fail because of my poor Spanish, but I enjoyed myself because I like my classmates and spending time with them - even if it's studying! While they studied for exams, I translated a few paragraphs of History notes into English.

Also on Wednesday, the new episode of Glee (Tuesday for you guys, Wednesday for me, since I have to wait for it to be uploaded online and time differences...grr) was very good. It was called "Hold on to Sixteen" or something like that and it really made me think. It's like this: we're only young for so long, so for goodness sakes, enjoy it! We'll be "grown-ups" soon enough, but right now we're young, and we're exactly where we should be in the scheme of life. On Thursday, Matt and I worked on a "Christmas in the USA" project for our Spanish class, and that went well. I think we'll get a good grade (wow, haven't said that for a while!). Paola bought me a coat and some boots as Christmas presents this afternoon and I think that I look like a total (blonde) Spaniard with them on. I'm going to a Christmas party at church with Evelyn tonight and I think we may be watching the big game afterwards too. So yeah, life is pretty good. :)

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Ai Se Eu Te Pego


Sorry if you tried translating that from Spanish - it's actually Portuguese! Even so, this song is super popular in Spain so I thought I'd share it with you. Spain makes a goal in futbol? The players are singing and doing this dance on the field. Spain wins tennis? Everyone's doing Ai Se Eu Te Pego. I don't think most people actually know the lyrics/meaning, but that's no reason to question a song with a good dance, right?

Monday, December 5, 2011

Some things will just have to come in time.

Happy two months to me, wooo! Well, I guess technically today is two months since leaving Iowa and tomorrow is two months in Spain, but still. The past week hasn't been very eventful. I finally went to McDonald's here on Friday. I got the usual - a chicken nuggets Happy Meal. It tasted almost the same as in the US! On Saturday I went shopping with Molly at La Cañada, a HUGE mall in Marbella. I found two cardigans and two scarves (along with some sweats for P.E.), so I'd say it was a successful day. This week, I don't have school tomorrow or Thursday because of holidays, which I find kind of strange. Why not just take the whole week off instead of going every other day? Ah, oh well. I'm happy to have the two days off.

Anyways, remember when I wrote about the openness of Spain? If not, well the people here are pretty close to each other emotionally and physically. This is still true, but I feel like there's more to it. You see, I've been here for two months now, and I can't help but notice that my classmates are still kind of distant to me. I understand that I'm the new girl and that friendships only come in time, but it's difficult nevertheless.

I'm hoping that this is just one of those things that will work out in time. I've heard it said time after time by previous exchangers that the second half of exchange is usually better than the first, not only because you have a much better grasp on the language, but because you also have closer friends. I want to make close friends here. I have too much of an opportunity to make lifetime friends here to not try. I'll continue to be friendly to my classmates, I'll try to get to know them better; hopefully they will do the same in return. :)

The past month has been pretty hard for me with stress and homesickness and just general frustration. I think a big part of that has been the "distant" feeling I just explained. It's so easy to say to myself Ugh, I have this problem here in Spain, but if I were in the U.S. I'd be just fine. I never have these problems at home. And those thoughts of frustration lead to homesickness. That is why it is so important for me to stay positive mentally, and stay busy/distracted. When I'm busy, I'm immersed in Spain, and that's exactly how it should be.

On a good side note, Paola and I just put up the Christmas tree!


Getting Ron into the Christmas Spirit.


It sure doesn't feel like Christmas is in three weeks. No snow, no mittens (except for the ones that Molly bought! haha that's another story), and a strange lack of Christmas music. I have been listening to some Christmas music online lately, but often it makes me miss home and I end up listening to something else. Some have said that Christmas is the lowest point in an exchanger's year, but I'm determined to make it one of the best times! I have the opportunity to have Christmas in another country with different traditions and different people, and I'm going to make the most of it!  I know that I will probably be very homesick at times, but I will be gaining new experiences and celebrating Christ's birth in a whole new way. If that's not cool, than what is? :D

Well, that's about all I've got for now! I'm going to try to write a post about school here soon, so be sure to check back every now and then. Love you guys!

Muchos besos,
Josie